How to listen for Connection - demo with my dad

How to listen to someone in a way that is connecting? And that also leaves space for YOUR experience..check out the demo I recorded with my father.

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Ada says:
December 10, 2019 at 3:37 pm

Brilliant and moving demonstration.
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Iva says:
August 20, 2019 at 12:57 am

Hello, I love this video! I’m quite new to NVC. I was just wondering about offering an apology to your dad. What is the reason behind that? Thank you!
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- Marianne van Dijk says:
  August 23, 2019 at 12:31 pm
  
  You mean if there is reason for not apologizing?

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