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Appreciated the clarity of this video and helpful reminders and tips about making requests. Thank you.
I am so grateful for your work. You have helped me find a way through very uncomfortable situations! I am not at all comfortable to receive Corona inoculation. I have watched doctors on utube who have made it their life’s passion to research the actual mechanism that occurs in the body w the mRNA design. From their studies, they postulate that it could cause long term stress on all our organ systems. People reply w raised tone of voice that they don’t want to talk about this, maybe because they just received it. They say they would feel more comfortable if I just comply. I feel frightened about my loved ones who have already had it, and lonely that I might not be able to travel because I won’t have a vaccination passport. I am a holistic health kind of person who takes daily responsibility for preventative well-being in a big way and feel frustrated this is not considered into this possible blanket policy. Any tips how to talk to others about this? It’s a very touchy subject for everyone.
It’s one thing to read about this from a book, but something else to hear your tone of voice and examples. You’re a super role model for good communication. Thank you!
Very useful tips , please could you consider creating a video to help with when a partner does not think Covid is as bad or exists, having terrible arguments around this topic as our beliefs are so far apart, and I feel very unsafe
thank you for the suggestion, I will consider this!
Hi Marianne, thanks for this! I do really like acronyms when letters stand for words. CUPIDO is easy to remember although I needed to listen again to remember what the I and D stood for… so that is helpful learning. I am grateful, It meets my needs for inspiration and stimulus. I recently wrote a map for courageous conversations and had three versions to work for different people on a spectrum – the simple version, the expanded one and the detailed one. Each built on the previous. I can sense that for me it would be fun to play with other acronyms for requests. For example PALS = Positive, Accepting ( of the possibility of “no” ) from Love, and Specific. I hope you like it. x
I do like it, thanks Annie!
Thank you for the video. It had clarity and learning for me! Safety and love to you. Mona
Happy to hear that Mona! Safety and love back to you!
Thankyou for this great video Marianne. What a great time to practise NVC…
Thanks Janine, and yes I resonate with that!