It takes only one person in the relationship to change the dynamic. When you change your communication, this works like a hacksaw with your partner. I’ve seen amazing relationship transformations from one person changing their mindset and communication.

Maybe you think: well, why do I have to change? Why can’t my partner change? Good question. And the answer is: you want to improve your relationship for you, not for your partner.

If you want something different, you need to take the steps to make it happen. And often I’ve seen it’s one person in the relationship that has the courage and clarity to do this. Don’t stop yourself from getting the relationship you want only because you are waiting for the other person to do something.

I get it. And yes, you do need to put in some time to make the program work: it takes about one hour a week. But I did design the program in such a way that you can tailor it to your circumstances. Are you very full? Just come to the live calls. This is where I help you personally with your case. You have lifetime access to the videos, so you can watch those at your own pace.

Do you have a bit more time? Watch the videos, do the exercises and participate actively in the Facebook Group. You can ask me questions there every day of the working week. All in all, you can adjust depending on your energy each week what you choose to participate in. It will be a relaxing and rewarding experience.

Oh and everything you learn during the course will save you so much time and so much energy!

Maybe you have an image of yourself as not good at standing up for yourself. Or a label that you are ‘too aggressive’. I’m here to tell you that you don’t need to change. When you learn to judge yourself less and take care of what you need, that is what will reflect in the relationship.

Also, this program is not like school: there are no exams or grades…this is all for your benefit. And I know that people only learn when things are fun. So I made the program in such a way that it is joyful and inspiring to follow. I love humor and lightness and if you haven’t laughed out loud at least once with me during this program I will give you a refund!

Consider this: the health of our relationships determines how we feel about our life. We may have a great job and nice friends, but if the time with our partner sucks…our life sucks! Most of us just want to have a strong bond with someone and grow old together happily..it’s these strong, safe bonds that help us to be our best in all other areas of our life.

The investment for this course is nothing compared to that of an individual or relationship therapist. This is waaay more cost effective! And the investment for your life is so worth it..you will get that back: in time, energy, in joy..

Typically, therapy sessions cost anywhere between $150-$250/ session, with the expectation of a minimum of 3 months (around $1,800 – $3,000 or more). Plus babysitting. Plus, those sessions don’t come with a satisfaction guarantee. The Happy Love Life Program does.

Yes, you can read books and watch Youtube videos to improve your relationship. But to really implement everything, is a whole different story. You need to know what things to start with and in what order to go. You need to actually DO things differently. You need to know what to do when you try something with your partner and then they don’t react the way you expected.

Happy Love Life is designed in a specific order that guarantees results. I help you with weekly exercises to actually act in a new way. And I know what to do with whatever reaction your partner gives – so we can tackle things together. That way you see progress fast and certain and you ensure not to make things worse.

Yes. We often think that improvement would mean that your partner would have to become a completely different person. Quite often there is a picture in our head of what a relationship should look like, and that picture might seem very far from our reality – which can make us want to give up. I approach relationships as a reflection of your ability to do self care. When you learn a new mindset and new skills, this changes how YOU feel and show up in the relationship. This in turn has a positive effect on your partner and the dynamic with them. I have guided a lot of people in long-term relationships successfully (check also my testimonials, for example that of Sandra).

Our program is not right for those looking for help with an emotionally or physically abusive relationship, those with mental illness, those who are already in a divorce.  Does it have a guarantee? Yes. We back our program with a 100% satisfaction guarantee. Here’s how it works. Participate in up to the first Module from the start of the program. If you no longer feel that Happy Love Life is right for you, send us an email. We’ll ask for your completed journal to make sure you gave it a go, and ask what didn’t work for you so we can learn and improve. Once we receive your completed coursework, you’ll get a swift and complete refund. If you do the Happy Love Life work and don’t get the value, submit your completed journal within the first 30 days, and get a full and complete refund. Simple as that.

Everything is online — no travel, babysitter or even pants are required. You have lifetime access to the training, so you can go through the materials each week as they’re released in the member’s area, or you can slow things down and work at your own pace.

If you plan to work through the program in real time, we recommend about one hour a week. If you’re not able to carve out that much time at first, don’t worry. You get lifetime access to the program and it’s available for you to work at your own pace. A lot of people who take Happy Love Life have families and often full-time jobs – it’s designed to work for you. 

I know there are shorter programs offered for love relationships. They say you can improve your relationship in, say, 3 months. I believe that many relationships indeed can be improved in 3 months, but not in a way that you will maintain the results by yourself afterwards. I wish for you to only have to put the time and money once, and do it well, rather then to take short investments here and there and never really see great results. So Happy Love Life is a complete program that creates deep improvements and empowers you to stay on track after the program as well.

Before the coaching call, you are invited to send in your issue or question to me. During the call I will give you one on one time to help you with the issue. The rest of the group listens in silence as to give you all the space needed. We do the coaching on Zoom. If you haven’t heard of it: it works like Skype, but with a group, so we can see and hear each other. 

You get a link to the group and will click on ‘join’ after which I will add you. The group is private, which means only people from this course can access it. You can ask questions here whenever you need my support. Every Friday we celebrate our successes. I am helping you here on all working days. After the course I will remove the group.

Most likely not, but do check with your insurance to be sure. Most insurances only cover for a few relationship counseling sessions, usually not enough to work through everything.

After signing up you will receive a confirmation email. You will have access to the content/videos of the program right away. You will also receive the info on how to access the live calls and the Facebook Group.

The coaching calls are on Friday every other week.

Check the starting time in your time zone:

The program starts in the week of 28 September 2020.