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When NOT To Talk about Polarizing Topics

Marianne van Dijk — Fri, 08 Dec 2023 09:21:23 +0000

When NOT To Talk about Polarizing Topics

Before you dive into charged, political topics, check your capacity and that of the other person with my simple checklist.

What do you find the hardest topic to bring up lately?

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NVC Q&A

Marianne van Dijk — Thu, 10 Mar 2022 09:37:19 +0000

I’m answering questions you sent me in the Q&A

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When two people want to get heard

Marianne van Dijk — Tue, 01 Jun 2021 13:35:07 +0000

When two people want to get heard

What to do when both you and the other person are triggered and you both want to get heard? I’m answering this question and more in the video! Let me know in the comments what you thought of it.

Come to one of the live webinars about Nonviolent Communication! You can ask questions during our Q&A and deepen your learning with different themes.

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10 tips to Talk About Sex With Your Partner

Marianne van Dijk — Tue, 16 Feb 2021 15:49:00 +0000

10 Tips To Talk About Sex With Your Partner

Talking about issues in your sex life can be tricky, so watch the video and learn:

-How to start talking about sex if you have never done so
-How to talk about conflicting wants in the bedroom
-How to address tricky issues like erection loss, being on your period, STI’s and the absence of sex, and much more!

Love Is Blind Show – Reaction

Marianne van Dijk — Thu, 07 May 2020 11:11:23 +0000

Let me know in the comments what you thought of this!

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Making Effective Requests during Corona and Beyond

Marianne van Dijk — Tue, 17 Mar 2020 16:46:02 +0000

Let me know in the comments what you thought of this!

Check my free webinars: https://cupofempathy.com/free-webinar/

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Top 3 ways of annoying people with your NVC

Marianne van Dijk — Mon, 17 Feb 2020 15:18:10 +0000

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Need a listening ear for 5 minutes? – nonviolent communication

Marianne van Dijk — Tue, 10 Dec 2019 08:31:31 +0000

_{I heard from many of you that sometimes no one is available to listen to you, when actually you’d really like that. Or maybe someone’s willing to listen, but it’s your friend who always interrupts while you’re sharing, or your partner who wants to give advice before you are heard in your feelings.}

So I created a video in which I am listening to you. And you can talk to me. If you want to see how that works, click here to see the video. I’m excited as I think it will be a cool experiment!

Check the free webinar here: click here

Get my Tough Talk Preparation Sheet: click here

Give your reaction in the comment section underneath!

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How to deal with jealousy – the ultimate guide (part 2)

Marianne van Dijk — Tue, 03 Dec 2019 08:47:04 +0000

_{When I just started my business, I was insecure about my quality as a trainer and feeling uncertain about approaching people that follow me (you!). So whenever I saw my fellow NVC trainers posting things on Facebook or writing emails, I would nervously read what they were up to and click around on their website. I vaguely thought this would keep me informed, but all it did was making me feel more nervous.

So then I decided to go on a Comparison Diet. I unfollowed the posts of my colleagues. Not because I didn’t want to learn from them, but I wanted to choose when I’m in the right mood to do so, and Facebook would feed me the posts whenever Facebook decided it was the right time! I just wanted to act more from the principle that there is no sensible way to compare yourself with others. None at all!

I’m sharing about the effect of the Comparison Diet and other ways to deal with envy and insecurity in the second part of my Ultimate guide to Jealousy video.}

Check my free webinars: https://cupofempathy.com/free-webinar/

Get my Tough Talk Preparation Sheet: click here

Give your reaction in the comment section underneath!

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How to deal with jealousy – the ultimate guide

Marianne van Dijk — Tue, 26 Nov 2019 07:22:31 +0000

_{When I was five I was envious of my friends toys. I had these tame wooden toys, given to me by my well-meaning hippy parents. My two best friends had Big Pink Plastic Barbie doll houses. With soft teeny tiny pink blankets. I had such stings of envy towards them that I plotted to steal something from their doll houses, if only one of those teeny tiny pink blankets – just to give my wooden blocks a fancy cover.

Apart from a love for pink (as you MIGHT be able to tell from my Youtube thumbnails), things have changed quite a bit for me. First of all: i’m no longer considering stealing Barbie accessories. Secondly, the envy itself. Now it’s not that Im never ever feeling envious. I believe it’s part of being human. But with Nonviolent Communication and a few other tools I’m able to move through it super fast. One thing that I learned to keep in mind, is that the envy is never directly about the Barbie doll house that the other has. Or the real life mansion. Or the looks they have. Or the kick-ass business they built.}_{I’m sharing with you what it IS really about, and 3 ways to move through envy and jealousy super easily, in my Ultimate Guide to dealing with Jealousy. I call it ‘jealousy’ in this title because that is what most of you search for, but there is a difference between jealousy and envy and a different solution – I will share this in the video as well.}

Check my free webinars: https://cupofempathy.com/free-webinar/

Get my Tough Talk Preparation Sheet: click here

Give your reaction in the comment section underneath!

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Videos Archives » Cup of Empathy

When NOT To Talk about Polarizing Topics

When NOT To Talk about Polarizing Topics

NVC Q&A

I’m answering questions you sent me in the Q&A

More videos:

When two people want to get heard

When two people want to get heard

10 tips to Talk About Sex With Your Partner

10 Tips To Talk About Sex With Your Partner

More videos:

Love Is Blind Show – Reaction

Making Effective Requests during Corona and Beyond

Top 3 ways of annoying people with your NVC

Need a listening ear for 5 minutes? – nonviolent communication

How to deal with jealousy – the ultimate guide (part 2)

How to deal with jealousy – the ultimate guide