Comments on: Why your conflicts get stuck + what to do about it https://cupofempathy.com/why-your-conflicts-get-stuck-what-to-do-about-it/ Nonviolent Communication Online Courses Wed, 19 Mar 2025 09:40:15 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.9.4 By: Marianne van Dijk https://cupofempathy.com/why-your-conflicts-get-stuck-what-to-do-about-it/#comment-1960 Sun, 21 Jul 2019 10:16:23 +0000 https://cupofempathy.com/?p=5020#comment-1960 In reply to Louis.

Maybe she had a need to be understood in how she meant her comment, to be trusted in her respect for your brother?

]]> By: Louis https://cupofempathy.com/why-your-conflicts-get-stuck-what-to-do-about-it/#comment-1948 Sun, 14 Jul 2019 03:26:14 +0000 https://cupofempathy.com/?p=5020#comment-1948 My mother came to me and shared a trouble she had with my brother. She was describing the situation as an observation in harmony with NVC. She said: “I was with your two brothers and then I shared something I heard recently from a professional sport coach who was saying that scoring goals is not something that can be taught. Brother A said to me:”Oh you are dismissing our professionalism and our ability to coach people”.” My mother then described how she felt hurt.

And I had some trouble really get I sense that I was helping her feeling received and heard. What was her need? Maybe it was longing for dignity and respect in her relations and she would have liked a different type of appreciation of herself by my brother at this moment.

Hum, I’not that sure at this moment?..

]]> By: Suzanne Long https://cupofempathy.com/why-your-conflicts-get-stuck-what-to-do-about-it/#comment-1946 Sat, 13 Jul 2019 13:16:18 +0000 https://cupofempathy.com/?p=5020#comment-1946 This very concrete example script demonstrating the language of nonviolence is very helpful to me in all your videos. Also I am encouraged by the belonging property to belong to myself. That gives me ease and comfort and meets my need for authenticity and integrity.

]]> By: coni papin https://cupofempathy.com/why-your-conflicts-get-stuck-what-to-do-about-it/#comment-1908 Sun, 02 Jun 2019 16:55:43 +0000 https://cupofempathy.com/?p=5020#comment-1908 Once again …I enjoyed this video. I have been practicing NVC for 1and a1/2 years. I want world peace,too. I was reminded of core needs vs strategies. Set me back on track, Thanks. I would like more examples of meeting needs and using strategies.

]]> By: Marianne van Dijk https://cupofempathy.com/why-your-conflicts-get-stuck-what-to-do-about-it/#comment-1725 Tue, 22 Jan 2019 11:46:56 +0000 https://cupofempathy.com/?p=5020#comment-1725 In reply to Julianne.

Hi Julianne, I enjoyed the way you describe this process in you and I’m impressed with the inner clarity. Thanks for sharing!

]]> By: Marianne van Dijk https://cupofempathy.com/why-your-conflicts-get-stuck-what-to-do-about-it/#comment-1723 Tue, 22 Jan 2019 11:41:50 +0000 https://cupofempathy.com/?p=5020#comment-1723 In reply to Ruby.

Happy to hear your gratefulness, I feel grateful in turn receiving this!

]]> By: Marianne van Dijk https://cupofempathy.com/why-your-conflicts-get-stuck-what-to-do-about-it/#comment-1722 Tue, 22 Jan 2019 11:38:20 +0000 https://cupofempathy.com/?p=5020#comment-1722 In reply to Nancy.

Thank you for your sharing and forwarding my details to your friend! I hear that this conflict is causing you a lot of stress..I want to send you lots of compassion. Money is indeed a strategy – and such an important one that it can be challenging to move to the needs behind it. I would recommend not pushing the person to the need. Connect with your own needs around this first and if you have space, stay with the other’s fear. big hug!

]]> By: Marianne van Dijk https://cupofempathy.com/why-your-conflicts-get-stuck-what-to-do-about-it/#comment-1719 Tue, 22 Jan 2019 11:24:23 +0000 https://cupofempathy.com/?p=5020#comment-1719 In reply to Anna.

Thanks for sharing, happy to hear it contributed!

]]> By: Marianne van Dijk https://cupofempathy.com/why-your-conflicts-get-stuck-what-to-do-about-it/#comment-1718 Tue, 22 Jan 2019 11:23:41 +0000 https://cupofempathy.com/?p=5020#comment-1718 In reply to Melanie.

Hi Melanie, I dont know where I talked about this before, but Im gonna make a separate video about it!

]]> By: Marianne van Dijk https://cupofempathy.com/why-your-conflicts-get-stuck-what-to-do-about-it/#comment-1717 Tue, 22 Jan 2019 11:22:26 +0000 https://cupofempathy.com/?p=5020#comment-1717 In reply to Annie.

Thank you Annie, I like that you used the word ‘abundance’ for this, it inspires me!

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