Comments on: How to deal with jealousy – the ultimate guide

By: Edith N

Edith N — Mon, 02 Dec 2019 16:58:13 +0000

Hi Marianne, from Texas. I have an NVC practice group and I love incorporating your videos, thank you for making them. I never considered speaking to the person I am jealous of about my feelings. I was surprised when you said it! I see that this type of honesty would deepen the connection with the person I admire. I will be glad for the reminder now when I feel jealously, to look for my deeper needs.

By: Marie Hansen

Marie Hansen — Tue, 26 Nov 2019 18:02:06 +0000

Just realized that I do have jealousies! Glad for the tip to look for my needs manifesting in other people.

By: Victor La Cerva

Victor La Cerva — Tue, 26 Nov 2019 15:09:57 +0000

Excellent and useful tools, as always! Good job! PLEASE keep putting these videos out there.
My own experience is that making a distinction between envy and jealously is useful. Jealousy ALWAYS involves another person and relationship. I am jealous of someone who has a good marriage, healthy child, and maybe is getting some attention from my partner. Envy is all about stuff: money, success, big house, fancy car. The underlying needs that have to be met are different, so good up front to distinguish! And of course relationships are the more important piece, so easier in many ways to let go of envy…

By: coni papin

coni papin — Tue, 26 Nov 2019 15:09:45 +0000

Differentiations between Jealousy and envy great help in discovery of what c an be…