3 destructive ways of ‘resolving’ your conflict

Everyone has their own style of dealing with a conflict, and sometimes it’s one that does not FULLY resolve the conflict.

If you don’t fully resolve your conflicts, they usually come back worse.

Watch my video about the 3 ways of dealing with conflict that don’t work, and what to do instead with the help of Nonviolent Communication:



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4 replies
  1. Shayla says:

    I give in 100% for 14 of the 16 years that I have been married. I am finally standing up for myself but now he maybe giving in because I was committed to divorcing him for two whole days. Time to watch the compromise video.

  2. Marianne van Dijk says:

    Hi Shayla, wow…Im speechless reading your situation, changing a habit that lasted for 14 years.. Happy that you are standing up for yourself now, and I imagine it causes quite a turmoil for you this change in your relationship and yourself. I wish you lots of softness for yourself and support in the steps that fit you.

  3. Rita says:

    I give in quite often…only recently I began to realise that I’ve built up a lot of resentment towards my partner because of that. I tried to address this issue but without much success. My partner tends to take my ‘no’ as a sign of not carring about him since he needs my help and I’m not willing to provide it. Maybe I’m not expressing myself clearly enough, I’m not sure.

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